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Unhelpful Thinking Styles

Our brain always tries to interpret the surrounding we are in and makes it make sense of events that occur currently. And so sometimes it can also wander around and create thoughts that can be problematic. These thoughts have some pattern in which they are created and we are mostly not aware of.

Everyone has unique patterns that they predominantly battle with as we choose them up over the path of our lives and that they turn out to be a habit.

Unhelpful thinking patterns create the thoughts that make contributions to negative emotions and patterns in our minds.

They are cognitive distortions and could strengthen negative emotions.

 

 

Here are 15 styles of unhelpful thinking styles you can apprehend in your personal life.

1. Filtering - This thinking style focuses only on negative instances from the whole circumstances and also amplifies it to an extent that can cause trouble knowing or unknowingly.

2. Polarised thinking - Polarised thinking pattern is processing your thoughts to extreme thinking without any acknowledgement of central possibilities in between them.

3. Overgeneralisation - In this style, an individual takes few instances under consideration from which meaning is derived out of it that further are applied to everything else by that person.

4. Mind reading - In mind-reading, a person can conclude about certain things but that have no factual basis on them.

5. Catastrophizing - Here a person can be seen to have negative thinking with exaggerated and catastrophic consequences about any situation.

6. Blaming - Observations like constantly blaming others or oneself for some specific consequences are seen in this style.

7. Personalisation - This style focuses on the thoughts of a person who is responsible for taking everything to be about them even if that is not the case.

8. Shoulds - Here a person has a compulsion of thoughts that every activity that is not completed ought to be done. These thoughts are so empowered that a person is compelled to complete or do the task even if he or she won't want to do it.

9. Fairness fallacy - Fairness fallacy is a pattern of thoughts a person has believing that other people are not fair towards them.

10. The fallacy of change - In this style of thought a person expects another person to change and that they can help them create that change either by force making pressure on them or through encouraging them.

11. Emotional reasoning - Here a person is carried away with their emotions and makes decisions based on those feelings even if the pieces of evidence suggests opposite issues.

12. Being Right - Here a person has firm thoughts of no matter what happens they would always be right.

13. Labelling - Labelling is a pattern in which an individual not only over generalises their thoughts but also assigns labels to them.

14. Heaven's reward fallacy - In this style the person forms firm thoughts that one's struggle would be always rewarded for sure which in future tends to form beliefs about it.

15. Control fallacy - Here the client makes the perception of them who are controlling things happening in surrounding in their presence or some believe that they are in control of everything and some also tend to believe that everything around them which includes them too, is externally controlled.

 

These were the most common unhelpful thinking styles that are experienced by each one of us at some instances in our lives.


 I wonder, do you have ever experienced any of these?


Comment it down or you can also write it to me in the Here To Hear.


Mindfulness  

Mindfulness is the ability to completely focus the mind on the present moment of what is happening now rather than what had happened before or will happen in the future. It is a process of becoming aware of something that is concrete completely about the present to what you do and where you are. It can be both a process to induce a hypnotic state and also the effect of being in a hypnotic state.
 

Mindful techniques used are

  • Walking
  • Meditation  
  • Grounding techniques,
  • Journaling,
  • Mind-body connection
  • Mindful eating
  • Mindful breathing techniques and more.


Mindfulness can be useful at times as it helps people to achieve goals. However, when people are too conscious of what's happening around them, it becomes a problem. Information overwhelming takes place. Over here client needs to shrink their awareness and become mindful of one specific thing.
 
 
 


 Defence Mechanisms  

 
Defence Mechanisms occurs due to internal desires that are not fulfilled because of the superego which further leads a person to face anxiety. This unconscious strategy comes into existence to protect oneself from negative thoughts and anxiety and to protect the positive intentions of the person. Therefore there is always a positive intention behind every defence mechanism.
 

Defence mechanisms help in coping up with anxiety but do not resolve the problem. But if they become our primary mode of responding to the problem and we continue engaging with these and not work on our problems might feel better in the short run but be ineffective and create an issue in the long run.
 
 

There are many Defence Mechanisms like

  • Repression
  • Denial
  • Projection
  • Suppression
  • Displacement
  • Regressions 
  • Sublimation
  • Overcompensation
  • Rationalisation
  • Intellectualisation
  • Introjection
  • Altruistic surrender
  • Reaction Formation
  • DayDreaming
  • Identification aggressor
  • Withdrawal
  • Amnesia 
  • Magical Undoing and many others
 

Working with Defence Mechanisms

We use different techniques like delayering the problem, exploring the presenting problem through hypnosis, asking the client about their desired outcome, using the inner child to deal with memories, then using anchoring. modelling & future pacing to prevent relapse, levels of transformation and also making them aware by educating them about the problem.
 
 
 

Positive intentions

Positive intentions are the whole lot that we do, our behaviours concerned in, is directly or indirectly offering with a few benefits. 

For instance an individual smoking a cigarette is a behaviour. The fine purpose in the back of it is to be relaxed. 


Working with Positive intentions


There are two methods to work with positive intentions


• Conscious level: 

In this technique, a client is requested to make a pros and cons listing of the behaviour they need to change. They could write down about changed and current behaviours. These written thoughts deliver insight into the positive intention. They can use techniques like metaphor and when the statement shows the presence of unwanted beliefs they can additionally work with beliefs if this is required withinside the case. 


• Unconscious level: 

Here in this method, the mental health professional asks the client’s unconscious thoughts to inform the positive intentions. The strategies used are finger signalling and body sensations. Once you acquire the feedback, you need to confirm if this is the unconscious response. Once done, you could lead them to give you an alternate plan of action for compensation. The unconscious mind, this way, is requested to contextualise the changed behaviour to satisfy positive intention without relying on original behaviour. The client realises that the behaviour is modified, later on, that is unconscious. This is a powerful and easy method. 


Positive intentions are required to work within instances of addiction, compulsion, relapses or behaviour especially with client desires to change.

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